As bartenders, we are occasionally the line of defence for beautiful women that sit at our bar. Over the years, I have developed signals for women to let me know a customer may be bothering them (that will go unnoticed). If anyone is bothering you or being too forward, simply take your cocktail Napkin out from underneath your drink and slide it to the edge of the bar On the Bartender’s side. It is easy to notice and then it gives me the opportunity to engage and assist.
Always be diplomatic and courteous never trying to embarrass anyone but just resolve the Situation with class.
